Otherwise, steer clear my friend.)) TIP…do this instead: if you absolutely feel that you must approach a woman out on a GNO who is not sending you any signals and has definitely NOT given you a green light then do something to stand out from the crowd like send a round of drinks or playfully named shots to the entire group first, telling the waiter to point you out to the special woman you want to connect to (“this is from the gentleman at the bar for you and your friends”).
That will make her feel special and include the group in a way that ensures that you are pleasantly interrupting them.
What woman is going to feel special hearing one of those boring lines as your pickup line?
TIP…do this instead: Be original and take a woman by surprise by saying something funny, clever and engaging.
Guys, this is NOT the time to try to bust a move on a woman unless she has been sending you the MOST OBVIOUS signals and flirting with you first.
These women are already having a super time and you really have no chance of interrupting that fun.
Don’t touch her right away and keep your distance – try to think of that Dirty Dancing scene with “this is my dance space, that is your dance space” and make sure you aren’t hovering too soon, that’ll just seem pervy and will probably scare her off.
And above all else, don’t go where you aren’t invited.
((NOTE: if a woman is sending you very clear signals and batting her eyelashes and smiling at you, then you have the green light so get in there!Be sure you have eye contact with her and be sure she wants to meet you first.One of my friends calls it “eye sex” when she sees a guy across the bar and flirts with smiles and her eyes, hehe.She just happened to be looking at you at the same time you were looking at her, which is not an invitation for a chat – that was just random eye contact! I am not an idiot and I would never try to approach a man who was way out of my league.And be honest now, how often are you successful when you don’t have an obvious invitation from a woman? And everyone, male and female, knows what league they play in. It sounds rough but do yourself a favour and don’t hit on a woman who is in a different league as you.