You need to have a clear idea of what you consider a relationship to be. Some guys need time and there’s nothing wrong with giving a guy time.Attempting to mold a man/relationship into being the relationship you want is a losing battle – progress is an illusion if you want something that he ultimately does not. Give him space to step up and be that man without manipulating, prodding, hinting, guilting or nagging him to be that man. No good relationship was ever built on the grounds of manipulation. But ultimately you won’t get the relationship you want unless you’re willing to pull the plug on a relationship that isn’t what you want.He was more exciting to be with than any of the 20-something guys I knew.And before I even knew what a great screw he was, I was already smitten with his wit and the way he filled out a pair of pants. Should I really have let 15 years come between me and happiness, just so I could avoid judgment from girls like Sue? You have to ask yourself this: Would you be OK with him if he's a 30 yr old doctor that attended a prestigious school and comes from a good upstanding family, a 30 year old professional athlete, or 30 year old bartender? We are married with kids and have been together for 18 years.I would be more concerned with whether the guy has had lots of girlfriends or is divorced.What I mean is that I like them right where they are…I know she’s not interested in hooking up with other guys, we see each other regularly enough (one a week or so) and when we’re together it’s nice, but there’s no feeling of exclusivity or dependency. The girl starts becoming attached to me, missing me and wanting to become more “official”.
I just thought he was the hottest, funniest man I’d ever met.As soon as she starts to age he will get another 21 year old to drill. Obviously the guy has game picking up a 21 year old at 30When i was 25 I dated a 18 yr old, who was a HS senior.Her opinion was that the guys in her age rage were idiots.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.