Open up, even when you don’t know what’s going to happen. Don’t let the wounds of the past create a wounded future. Taking them into consideration, this is a good moment to ask yourself again “Am I socially awkward?
I have three essential pieces of advice I can offer you.
Learn to value openness and rebuilding your heart more than safety.
Learn how to be more loving from your past pain, not how to be more closed.
After years of disappointment, heart break and unhappy endings, it can be very easy to close down on real love. Remember, strength in the muscles of your body is created by your muscles being ripped apart, and then rebuilt.
Your heart and your emotional intelligence and fitness operate the same way. It’s easy to throw a wrench into real love when it comes.