Moving Towards an Exclusive Relationship Assuming the “let’s be exclusive” conversation hasn’t happened, I would recommend you start to slowly but intentionally determine if he feels your relationship is headed in that direction.
Where does he see this relationship going, exactly?
Perhaps not nice or courteous but not unfair either.
It’s especially bothersome if his actions suggest exclusivity even if he hasn’t declared so in words…and yet it is still acceptable in my mind for him to keep his profile up, even in this case.
As I discussed above, I would recommend against being aggressive or angry.
Still, these are areas you will need him to define.
Try not to force them but at the same time you will want to look for opportunities let him know that you need to know where you stand with him.You enjoy each others’ company, enjoy the same things and over the next month or so you start to date more seriously. However there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.If this sounds like your situation, you’re not alone.In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.