And finding a woman with the ability to inspire me is exactly what I am looking for.That, and a woman with the keys to a 2003 Ford Focus.
My own take is: If she's driven, she is going to inspire me.I knew she was testing me to see if I was cheap or if I'd spend it on her. All I ask is for my date—and for myself—to show up mentally unaccompanied, so we can both spend the whole night discovering what exactly we do like about each other.Before I turned 30, I registered words and concepts, but I hadn't yet learned how to truly focus when a woman was speaking, how to stop my brain from shuffling through other thoughts like: Where should we go after dinner? How is this date going—maybe I shouldn't have ridiculed people who are overly enthusiastic about yogurt?As a result, I can certainly tell when the woman I'm with is herself mentally distracted.Her eyes are everywhere but on my face, and her hands are busy with her hair or the napkin on the table. Her job, her art, her hobby, her rescue dog, her family, her Ford Focus (if she can pull that off).