you said you dont have a problem if he is perhaps remotely gay so why do you care? but that i do think its leaning on the left if your SO wants to have a 3-some with another man. that, and while i inclind to agree that this is the case for some people, i think that in my bfs case the kink really goes more towards the voyeuristic. expectations and boundaries are so important when getting into this sort of play. More money for his/her college and things like that. she has made me the person i today i thank god every day for her- really. Everybody keeps telling us well be b friends when were older and were both like HA, YEAH RIGHT. I do that all the time Sometimes I hate talking on the phone.
On a different note, Ive dated two only , and theyre very kind, compassionate, loving people. I would sugg he isnt happy with you and wants to explore but wants to include you because he feels guilty to cheat. of course some couples do get into it for the wrong reasons, ie theyre not feeling a mutual spark. and this i know because weve not only talked and talked but because there is a lot of trust there. this sort of stuff ends up splitting a lot of good couples up. But seems like there is always someone that gets hurt. nothing wrong with that, plenty of committed couples explore the darker realms of their sexuality this way doesnt mean theres anything wrong with the relationship. Apparently, I did it in a groggy state, got up, went to work, and received a grossed out from him later. Id been cleaning the bathroom and kitchen when I was on here instead.